Sunday, September 13, 2009

"Excess" School

Now, I know that the title of my blog is "The Eternal Optimist." However, this will be one of those times that I am going to rant and you won't think I am so optimistic. As a student, you are expected to get homework. But when suddenly you are expected to do 3 lengthy assignments only for one class in one weekend, outrageous? I think so. What teachers don't get is that when they give out large assignments, the don't expect other teachers to give out large assignments as well. The outcome is just the opposite. It always seems to be the opposite. When teachers give out large assignments, other teachers feel the need to give out large assignments as well.

Unfortunately, if teachers are to read this post, they will just say, "Just use time management and you will be okay!" While that is true, what teenager isn't going to want a life? It is 10:29 in the evening on a Sunday and I have yet to finish all my homework (which I have worked on since 2). I understand that I may be somewhat of a procrastinator, but it seems to me that if I have been working for 8 hours, school work would be done and I could be in bed right now.

Going along with the theme of school, my mother was at a conference that had a local physician speaking about the amount of sleep that is necessary for teenagers. This physician stated that starting school at 8 o'clock is too early of a starting time. Two states have already switched their high school starting times to about 9 o'clock, simply for the reason that teenagers need their sleep. I have added two links at the end of this post that will provide some info about the necessity of sleep and school start times.

When you factor in the idea of teens being involved in extra curricular activities and school sports, sleep is much needed. Teachers don't realize that sports (such as swimming) begin their practices at 5:45 in the morning and often times with away meets/games may not get home until 11 in the evening. That student is not given any special privileges and is still expected to complete all their work in time for the next day.

I am involved in show choir and drama. Now, although show choir only practices once or twice a week, it still puts a strain on my ability to complete homework. Drama, however, while in the midst of the premier, I have play practice everyday from about 3:30 until close to 9 every day. I would do homework in my free time while practicing, but we are expected to pay attention and be ready to take instruction while offstage.

One final note on the idea of amounts of homework. Wednesdays are intended as "church" days where some people have services and others have youth groups and such. As a Christian, I enjoy going to our youth group and participating in our youth activities. On Wednesdays, teachers are not supposed to give out a ton of homework because kids shouldn't have to give up their Christian life just for schoolwork. So teachers give out a little homework. But when you have 5 challenging academic courses in one day and each teacher gives a "little" amount of homework, that so-called "little" amount becomes a huge load of homework. I have not been able to attend my youth group/church activities in the past month because I have had school homework/activities every night and I have had to take the choice of school because I get a grade for this work.

This leads into the topic of grading homework. If someone is extremely busy and simply does not have the time to do his/her homework, the teacher shouldn't care. Teachers should be more understanding of this circumstance. If you are a teacher reading this, you may think to yourself, I AM understanding of these situations. What you don't realize, however, is that more often than not, you really aren't that lenient. Think to yourself, how many times have you docked points for late work? If a student turns in work late and says they're sorry it's late, they just couldn't get it done on time, do you still dock them points? The most likely answer to that question is yes. In that case, you are less understanding than you think.

I apologize if during this post I offended anyone, and I also apologize for definitely being less than optimistic. I was just trying to get my point across, so one must use the extremities.

Will you let this post affect your outlook on school?

P.S. I didn't highlight a word for this post because I feel that their are too many important words to highlight just one.


Links of Interest:

Perfection-ism

Perfection is definitely NOT something I deal with on a daily basis, but have you ever met somebody who perfection is their main academic feature? Those students who have to have EVERYTHING be completely in line, nothing can be out of order. Well recently I realized perfection can be a good (many presume it to be bad) quality.

Perfection can be characterized into two types of people, those that already do everything perfect, and those that have to work to make everything perfect. When you are the person that has to work to make everything perfect, that usually is when perfectionism becomes a bad quality. That person takes a large amount of time getting everything to their quota of perfection.

When a person that has the quality of having everything they do already be perfect, this quality is what I consider to be a "good" quality. They have been blessed with the ability to create everything in their possession close to (if not) perfect. I envy this quality greatly. In my dreams I am able to create everything just perfect, but when I attempt to bring this quality to real life, i cannot seem to do it any justice.

The main point of this blog is that while I was working on a project I tried to to create everything of "perfectionist" quality and I thought "hey...blogging about the idea of perfectionism would be a cool thing." Luckily I had partners in this project who improved the quality greatly.

The idea of perfectionism greatly depends on the person you are talking to. The perfectionist will tell you that they are not perfect and how they wish they were. The person normally accusing the perfectionist is the one who is definitely less than perfect. This so-called less than perfect student will roll their eyes in disbelief that the perfectionist does not recognize their acts of perfectionism.

In conclusion, in my opinion, perfectionism is not in any way a bad quality, to an extent of course. Those that use their ability to their advantage and recognize their strength, it can be all to their advantage.

Will you let yourself realize you are a perfectionist?

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Happiness

So have you ever just had one of those moments where you're just happy??? I am having one of those moments right NOW! For me, its because I found out I did well on a test, but for anyone who's reading, it may be that you just got a paycheck or you got first in some sort of competition. These moments should be cherished. To remember this amazing feeling of happiness, I am blogging about it.

My focus for this blog however, is actually show choir. Show choir makes me happy. That feeling of total happiness came for me when the show choir I am in received the Grand Champion award for the third year in a row. As you sit there just wondering who the announcer is going to say next and hearing your show choir called out for grand champion could potentially be the best feeling in the world.

Show choir for some could be possibly the worst thing on this planet; those people find it boring and completely pointless. More often than not, those people are the ones forced to watch such an activity at pep assemblies or because a sibling may be in it. However, these people are not on stage, they just don’t know the feeling when the entire crowd stands up and cheers, or the feeling when your name is called out from the audience just before you start. You just get this rush of happiness.

Wikipedia defines show choir as a group of people who combine choral singing with dance movements. For the most part, this statement is true. The problem with this definition, however, is that it doesn’t capture the true essence of show choir. As cheesy at this may sound, you truly become a family. The people you are around are all there for one purpose and one purpose only; they are doing what makes them happy.

One final thing to conclude, true happiness doesn’t come from what others believe or what you are forced into doing. That feeling of total happiness comes from what you want to do, what makes you feel like you are doing the right thing in this world. Happiness is what you want it to be, what you allow it to be.

Will you let the happiness fill you?


Reference:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Showchoir